Yep, I am Pansexual/Trans

 This week has been a roller-coaster for me. For almost 40 years I have been trapped in a male body. Even though I have been in 2 wars, and other stuff I don't want to talk about no one knew I was screaming inside.

Every time I went on a date, I did not want them in the way they thought I did. Even my 2 wives didn't know. No wonder I don't have kids.

But after splitting up with my ex I thought this. Why be so unhappy. I will come out properly (already come out as Bi) and anyone who doesn't like it, well they are not true friends.

I knew my sister and niece, 2 of the most important people to me along with my other niece and nephew, would be ok with it. Hell my sister has been giving me tips and my soon to be 21Yo Lesbian niece said something I will hold to hart to me. "everyone got to do whats right for them". This I could not have said any better.

Some advise. If you think you are Bi/Gay/Trans, don't hold it in. Talk to someone. There is help. Facebook, TikTok, Your Doctors. Just talk to someone about it.