Kira Herdman

 This week has been a roller-coaster for me. For almost 40 years I have been trapped in a male body. Even though I have been in 2 wars, and other stuff I don't want to talk about no one knew I was screaming inside. Every time I went on a date, I did not want them in the way they thought I did. Even my 2 wives didn't know. No wonder I don't have kids. But after splitting up with my ex I thought this. Why be so unhappy. I will come out properly (already come out as Bi) and anyone who doesn't like it, well they are not true friends. I knew my sister and niece, 2 of the most important people to me along with my other niece and nephew, would be ok with it. Hell my sister has been giving me tips and my soon to be 21Yo Lesbian niece said something I will hold to hart to me. "everyone got to do whats right for them". This I could not have said any better. Some advise. If you think you are Bi/Gay/Trans, don't hold it in. Talk to someone. There is help. Facebook, Ti

 You hear of people who come out as Bi or Gay getting disowned by the family and friends. This makes them scared of coming out. A classic example of this was me, I am Bi. I came out in 2019 in support of me niece who came out as a Lesbian. She got some crap for it but you can not help who you are. I have noticed myself that some people who I thought was friends do not speak to me now. This you should expect if you think you are gay/bi. I am lucky. I have a sister who understands and supports me, and of course my niece. My sisters other children also know and accept it. Even her boyfriend does. Everyone else in my family though does not. There is help if you are thinking of coming out. One group on Facebook, LGBTQ+ Hangout  is a good place to go if you need support. The people there are very easy going, and if you need help then there are a lot of people there who have been or going through what you are going through. I know from personal experience it is hard to come out, but it is bet

As someone who has PTSD music is very important to me as without it I can not even leave the house. I have always had a few sets of headphones to make sure I always have some available. After seeing the Echo Buds on sale (£60 instead of £120) I thought I would treat myself to some and see what the fuss was about. Oh boy I am so glad I did. Sound Quality The most important feature of any headphones is well, the sound quality. While these are no Audiophile quality they are very good for what most people will use them for. The base is good, the mid rage and high range also come out very good as well. Overall the listening experience with these buds are very good. Better than my old Powerbeats 3. Features Pairing the Echo Buds is as simple as opening the Alexa app on your phone then opening the case. It then asks are you sure, and that’s it. They also support Bluetooth pairing as well. One very nice feature is if you take one of the buds out of your ears, the music stops until you put it b

After watching a YouTube Video of Page and Holly doing the 30 day challenge ( Link Here ) and it helped them turn there life around, I thought I would do the same to celebrate Pride Month. I have also not had a lot of energy since splitting up with my ex so this is a good way to get back to living again. The UK is also in the middle of a mini heatwave, which for me is a bad thing since I am a red head. This comes to bite my backside later on. So what I decided to do for the 30 day challenge is get up at 6am every day and go for a 3 mile walk (I can not run like I used to as I have a hip that plays up sometimes) For the first 2 days this went good. Here are 2 photos I took when doing them. Day 1 Day 2 Then heatstroke hit me like a truck. Thanks to the heat wave and the fact I am a red head for Day 3 I had a stinking headache and was drained. I also had to drink a lot of water. for the next 4 days (that is the day I am writing this post) I still had headaches and drained. I was determine